Woman disputes $1,500 vacation rental charge after her cousin uses her credit card without permission for an anniversary trip and refuses to pay it back

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  • Young woman with long curly hair sitting on a bed using a laptop while holding a credit card, focused on online shopping or managing digital payments at home.
  • AITJ for disputing a charge after my cousin used my card without telling me to pay for her vacation rental

    So last summer my cousin needed to book a flight for a job interview and her bank account was being weird.
  • Some hold on her debit card or something. She asked if she could use my credit card and shed send me the money right away.
  • I said sure. She paid me back the next day. No issues no drama. That was supposed to be a one time thing.
  • Fast forward to about a month ago I get an alert on my phone for a charge of fifteen hundred dollars from some vacation rental site.
  • My heart dropped because I thought someone stole my card info. I started going through the charge details and thats when I saw her name on the booking confirmation.
  • Young woman with long curly hair sitting cross-legged on a bed using a laptop in a cozy loft-style bedroom with exposed brick walls and houseplants, working or browsing online from home.
  • I called her immediately like what the his this. She was SO casual about it.
  • Said she found this beach house for her anniversary trip and they needed a card on file right away to hold the reservation and she didnt want to lose the dates.
  • So she just used mine. Without calling me. Without texting me. Without asking. Just typed in my card number from whenever she saved it last year.
  • She said shed pay me back when she gets her bonus in a few weeks. A FEW WEEKS.
  • Young woman with long curly hair sitting at a wooden table sorting printed photos, surrounded by potted plants, books, and a smartphone in a cozy loft-style room with exposed brick walls.
  • Fifteen hundred dollars just floating on my credit card for weeks while I have my own bills.
  • I told her thats not how this works. She said I was overreacting and that shed literally just used it before and paid me back so whats the big deal.
  • The big deal is I SAID YES last time. This time she just helped herself. I called my bank and disputed the charge.
  • They reversed it. The rental company contacted her saying the payment didnt go through and they were releasing the reservation.
  • I told her using someone elses card without permission is fraud I dont care if were related
  • She hung up on me. AITJ?
  • Used_Veterinarian71 She saved your card info from a year ago and used it without asking thats not borrowing thats stealing
  • Shejuan01 Get a new card.
  • evilyyyn NTJ this is literally insane. You are absolutely right in disputing the charge. You have to change your card or tell the bank that you can't use this card anymore. She does not seem like someone who takes no simply as an answer. The entitlement is actually crazy to me.
  • Top-Bit85 The cousin is a thief is the reason her bank account is "being weird."
  • MassSportsGuy This has been posted 5x's since September 2025, same scenarios. At least change the scenarios.
  • Spinlggy NTA. Not only that, you need to get a new card and check your statements. People will make a bunch of small charges to see if the card holder notices and then try a large charge.

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